God Debates

After watching yet another debate, I've come to the conclusion that it's not that I don't know the arguments for God, but that I don't understand the significance of the arguments for the theistic position. I do wonder what's missing so that I can at least appreciate where the theists are coming from. Is there some connection that I'm missing, or is it that perhaps the arguments would make sense if I were a believer? In any case, there's an infuriating futility in that I can't see how to get from the case to the conclusion.